Lessons from Goldilocks

What I remember about the story is that Goldi tested out a few chairs and beds until she found a spot to feel safe enough to rest. Risky of her to break into home that was not hers, and a little crazy to explore its contents. She made a mistake and broke a chair, but swiftly moved on until she reached her goal. In the story of Goldilocks and The Three Bears, she did not find happiness immediately. Goldie had to try out a few chairs and beds before finding a spot that felt right. And then she laid down to rest.

Submitting your resume, sending a college application, writing an email to someone new can feel super scary. My father believed in going for one interview or networking meeting each year to remind you of your worth. It’s a way to compare your current position with another opportunity. Sometimes, the process will encourage the next step, while other times it can make you grateful for the role you currently have.

I was reading and writing about other people’s changes; what inspired and motivated them to take a risk. I followed my late father’s advice and polished up my resume. When I was invited to go into a round of interviews, it was intimidating, but I was curious about the little schoolhouse next door to Dana Hall. I arrived to meet the team and was greeted outside by the Head of School’s assistant. “Welcome, wow you are so beautiful in person! I am so happy you are here.” Robin opened the door and I was instantly calmed. She hugged me and I glowed from within. What a way to go into a job interview. I spent five hours meeting with many people but as soon as I saw the school’s motto painted on the wall, I knew I had to work there.

“Work hard, find joy, be kind.”

Two weeks into my new job at Tenacre Country Day School and they have asked me to push forward the theme of the year: Joy. I have had jobs that were too soft, or too hard, but this feels just right.